"May Someone Accompany You Through Turmoil: The World is Too Big, Listen to Yourself"

成长的一部分就是你会不断地和熟悉的东西告别，和一些人告别，做一些以前不会做的事，爱一个可能没有结果的人。不做一些事心痒痒，做了又觉得自己傻。

很久之后我才明白，所谓的“成长”，就是越来越能接受自己本来的样子，也能更好地和孤单的自己、失落的自己、失败的自己相处，并且接受他，然后面对他。

无论将来会遇到谁，生活都是先从遇到自己开始的。

每个人都在寻找一件东西，可我们却很少认真地问问自己到底要什么。我们不停地赶路，永不停歇，却时常怀疑自己追寻的是不是需要的，因而我们变得越发焦虑。世界太大，别人的路是参考，不是标准，你必须找到属于你自己的路。你要学会捂上耳朵，不去听身边熙熙攘攘的声音，听听你自己的声音。

A part of growing up is that you will continuously say goodbye to familiar things, bid farewell to certain people, do things you wouldn’t have done before, and love someone who might not have a future. You feel restless when you don’t do certain things, yet you feel foolish when you do.

It took me a long time to realize that "growing up" means being able to accept your true self more and to better coexist with your lonely self, your lost self, and your failing self, and then to face him.

No matter whom you will encounter in the future, life begins with meeting yourself.

Everyone is searching for something, yet we seldom seriously ask ourselves what we really want. We are constantly on the move, never resting, but often doubt whether what we are pursuing is truly necessary, thus growing increasingly anxious. The world is vast; others' paths are references, not standards. You must find your own path. You need to learn to cover your ears, to not listen to the bustling voices around you, and to hear your own voice.